Saturday, January 25, 2014

Happy Birthday Nanny!

Thursday night we all gathered at Nanny's house to celebrate her birthday! We had a delicious pizza and salad dinner and cupcakes from the Cake Shop for dessert.  Yummy!


 Being silly with Uncle Jordan.  Such a great role model. 


 Singing Happy Birthday and blowing out the candle.


 Helping Nanny open her gifts. 

Love this family collage my mom put together for Nanny.

Mason has one place in Nanny's house he's not allowed to play in/with: a cabinet with breakables.  While everyone was opening gifts, he walked over to the cabinet, opened it, and placed one finger on the doll.  I had to take a picture of it - so defiant!

Then he decided to climb on the furniture - so mischievous!

 Kate's "bow"bies.
 Sweet smiles from Camden. He seems so calm compared to my two kiddos who were bouncing off the walls.  One day Camden will join them.
 
 

 Three generations of Cowart men.
 The only decent picture of myself, Nanny and the two little monkeys.

Justin wasn't able to join us for the birthday celebration because he had a surveying chapter meeting.  Lucky for him, I still brought home a couple cupcakes to share.
Happy Birthday Nanny!  We love you!

15 Months Old

Mason is 15 months old!  We went Tuesday afternoon for his 15 month checkup and Mason got a great report.

Here are Mason's 15 month stats:
Height - 29 3/4 inches - 15%
Weight - 22 lbs, 13 oz - 25%
Head Circumference - 47.3 cm - 50%

He is in size 18 month clothes, size 3 shoes, size 4 diapers and has 8 teeth (4 on top and 4 on bottom) with three molars coming through.  Mason’s sleeping patterns have greatly improved since he has been healthy for the past month or so.  He usually goes to bed between 7 and 7:30pm and he wakes up between 6:30 and 7am. 
At this age Mason is so happy and easy-going, but he can turn on the drama in the blink of an eye.  Thankfully it usually stops as quickly as it starts.  He is very mischievous and gets into everything Kate never messed with – the kitchen cabinets, the toilet, the washer and dryer, the pantry, etc.  He loves playing with Legos, throwing balls, chasing Kate, riding his Jeep push truck, banging on the furniture and being outside.  One of the funniest things he loves to do is turn the Swiffer vac on/off.  Justin or I usually Swiffer the floor every night and we call for Mason when it’s time.  Mason toddles up to the vac, turns it on, follows us all around the house, and then turns it off when we say we are done. 
I’m constantly reminded at how much he understands even though he can’t effectively communicate back to us.  I can ask him to bring me something and he will bring it and then grin at me and clap.  Mason will also purposely ignore us, especially when he is doing something he knows he shouldn’t do.  Most of the bath times or shower time end quickly because he is either pinching Kate or splashing all the water out of the bathtub.  He is all boy.
Mason is a constant thumb sucker and it doesn’t seem to be getting any better.  He used to only suck his thumb when he was tired or sick, but I think he was sick for so long that it has now just created a bad habit.  I usually pull his thumb out of his mouth and jokingly say “you don’t need that thumb!” and he just grins and sticks it back in his mouth.  He has always held his neck with the free hand, but he started another odd habit now where he either sticks his free hand down the front of his shirt or puts a finger in his belly button while he sucks his thumb.  Keep it classy Mason. 
Mason’s favorite person right now is my dad.  He also loves being with Papa.  If either of his grandfathers are around I know he’s not going to pay me any attention.  I love the special relationship he has with each of them.  This boy is also an eating machine.  We have not found anything that Mason will not eat.  Some of his favorite foods are chicken, bbq pork, pizza, grapes, broccoli, green beans, bread/biscuits, pasta, cheese, peanut butter crackers, yogurt, yogurt puffs, goldfish, apple sauce, strawberries, craisins, chocolate chip muffins and cereal bars.
Although Mason jabbers all day long, his only word that’s distinguishable is “uh-oh”.  He will also say “mama” and “daddy” and recently he seems to be using that more correctly (actually calling me mama or Justin daddy).  He tries to say thank you (sounds like “teh u”) but I’m still waiting on his first “real word”.  I’ve heard boys are slower at speaking then girls so I’m patiently waiting.  Mason can still communicate clearly.  He points a lot, fusses if we get him down from his high chair and he’s still hungry, kicks his legs if we guess the food he wants to eat, grunts or says “ooo” if he wants our attention.
I’m trying to cherish every moment with Mason while he’s little because he’s growing so quickly.  Here's a few pictures of my handsome boy to mark his 15 month milestone!


Being sweet at the doctor's office.


Poor Mason constantly has a bruise on his face and usually in the same spot.  Poor guy falls constantly, but it never seems to slow him down long.



And because no photo shoot is complete without this picture...
Happy 15th month birthday Mase!

Happy New Year 2014!

2014 is here and I’m praying that it is a great year.  I have been challenged more these past three years than I ever have before, but I'm also thankful for everything I have learned. While I haven’t expressed all our heartache on my blog, it’s been a constant struggle in every aspect of our lives – physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually. 


Health Concerns

For the majority of 2013, my focus has been on Justin. In addition to him not driving for a period of time, staying at home with the kids and then starting a new job at the end of August, Justin was suffering from severe side effects from one of his medications. Six months later, it was finally confirmed that one of his medications (that changed from name brand to generic) was the reason for these unexplained symptoms. I wish so badly we would have been able to determine that sooner so that Justin wouldn't have had to suffer so long, but I’m thankful we finally have an explanation and a solution.  Fingers crossed.
 

Mason has been my second biggest priority of 2013. The poor little guy has been sick week after week, month after month since starting school. He suffered through 6 ear infections in 8 weeks, had surgery to insert tubes in his ears, and came down with pneumonia at Thanksgiving for the grand finale (I hope). Whew. I was recently reviewing my leave balances and realized that during the past 4 months, I have used 10 days of sick leave between myself, Justin and Mason. I only have three more days of sick leave to last me until the end of August so I hope 2014 brings good health to both of my boys and continues to bring good health to Kate and I!

Finances

Finances have been a constant struggle for our family but we are slowly getting back on track. Justin accepted a job at the Department of Transportation at the end of August - a long answered prayer. Whew. If 2013 has taught us anything, it's that we can't live comfortably on one income. We have not been able to save as much as I had hoped so far, but I think 2014 is going to be the year that we can start rebuilding. Daycare expenses is one reason we have not been able to save as much, but for now I try to ignore the huge bill each month and try to remind myself that we aren't alone, it's our only option and that it won't last forever. Sigh. This time next year my goal is to have enough money in savings so that we start back on retirement and college savings contributions.  I hope we reach that goal!


Work/Family Life

Being a working mom is hard!  God has blessed me with a great job but I constantly feel like there’s not enough time in the day to get everything done outside of working hours.  I’m tired all the time, but I’m so thankful that I have Justin to help me.  He helps me pack the kid’s lunches and backpacks for school every night and helps with the laundry, cooking and anything else that needs to be done around the house.  I don’t know what I would do without him!  
 
In October, we hired someone to clean our house every two weeks and that has been one of the best things we have ever spent money on.  It has allowed us to spend more time with the kids and less time cleaning! My resolution for 2014 is to maximize my time with my family! 
 
Focusing on the Positives

With each challenge we have faced, I have tried to make a conscious effort to try to find the silver lining. The more I do it, the easier it has become. There is always something positive to find in every bad situation. Focusing on the good, no matter how small it seems gives me hope and strength for enduring the situation.
 
Through all of the challenges Justin and I have faced in 2013, I am most thankful for our open communication and strong bond. Our relationship has been tested to new limits, but we have come through it closer to one another and closer to God. Despite everything we have gone through these past few years, I’m thankful for these hardships because they have helped mold us into better spouses.
 
I’m cautiously optimistic to see what 2014 has in store for our family.  I’m planning for the worse and hoping for the best.  I know every year my family will face struggles and challenges, but I pray 2014 will bring less heartache and more happiness!
 
Happy New Year!

Happy Father's Day!

I want to wish this special guy a Happy Father's Day!  One day Kate and Mason will realize how lucky they are to call him dad.  He coac...